October in AK 2007

Brad just graduated the NCOA which means 6 weeks of absent Brad. It counts as 12 credit hours so it was pretty intense. He had plenty of homework and extra events. He had a graduation ceremony so we got dressed up and attended a formal dinner with his commander and classmates.

While Brad was attending the Academy I met a wife of one of his classmates. They were RVing in the spot right beside us. The good news is she is a hippy just like me. So the two of us hippy, artsy gals hung out every day for 6 weeks. She also homeschools her 2 boys and has a passion for nature like me. We even learned to knit together. The bad news is she lives in North Pole, AK, 6 hours away.

Brad has been absent from work for 6 weeks by now, not that it bothered him, and he is thinking he’s going back when he gets selected to participate in a base exercise. They go through a mock mobility line get to dress up in chemical warfare gear all day, all week and play M.A.S.H. Fun times there.

Brad is being told he will be deploying in January. The time frame has bounced around so we just know sometime in January. He has to take one for the team and do his obligation for the AF. In 18 years of service he has not deployed (Thank the Goddess!) He feels it is his opportunity to serve his country proud. He will be deploying somewhere in HI. Yeah, miss the winter of AK and live it up beach style. Pretty rough, I know. I am not a beach person but we might go, just to suffer along with Brad in HI in Jan :).

Ashley turned 15 this month. We hope she had a wonderful Bday in AZ. It kills us that we miss out on so much of the girl’s lives. From the big moments like birthdays and little ones like a bike ride, we miss them daily. The kids talk about them, what if they were here or they would love that. Brad tries to stay strong but there is a void when they are not with us.

We celebrated Samhain by remembering those who have passed before us. This is also the time to reflect on the past year and set hopes for the new.

The kids celebrated Halloween by taking to the streets as a Rocker, Fairy and Cowgirl. They hit the mother load and got a ton of candy. We were told the streets would be covered in snow but this year, not the story. It has snowed but not very much and it has mostly melted away.

We are still in search of a house. The water got turned off at the RV park so we are using the water tanks we bought. Brad has a heat lamp on them to keep from freezing as temps are in the teens. We have a dehumidifier running in the RV as we would be growing mold otherwise. Also the bath houses are now closed so showering is done at the base gym or at Brad’s work. I really enjoy running into his co-workers before showering and brushing my teeth. Wonder what they think of us? Oh and the potty…. we get to share a porta potty with the other RVers.

What an adventure!

Hello again

Just thought I would start back with the blog. The past year has been beyond busy but I am sure the same goes for your crew. I will work on a year summary and hopefully start back with monthly posts. We are all doing great and look forward to hearing from you. Pic was taken in July. Hugs to all, Jill

September in Alaska '07

Alaska life in Sept.

So the first 2 days we were home from our trip I didn’t drive anything but the couch. As many miles as we covered, I was exhausted! The kids were excited to be home, to see their dad and Thor, the dog.

We have picked up ALOT of activities here. For those who know us, know this is the way we roll. We just finished a 6 week archery class. The kids got to shoot with a compound bow and aim at a variety of targets. One of the targets was a stuffed foam monkey, so of course Kenzie had to intentionally miss that one.

On Saturdays the girls are taking Irish dance lessons. Both have become addicted to the dance steps. They practice EVERYWHERE! When they try at home it makes the RV shake as if we were in the middle of an earthquake.

Sundays are reserved for NASCAR and football of course!

Starting this month will be part of a Homeschool 4-H club. The children will be doing the rabbit project. Each will be getting their own rabbit to show in 4H.

Mondays and Tuesdays we have a homeschool computer lab class. The kids love it! Lego robotics, digital photography and tons of computer games are just a few choices they have to play with. Zac is building a little brother out of the Lego robotics.

Tuesdays Zac has Boy Scouts and Tuesdays and Thursdays he has basketball. He is enjoying playing a team sport. He is signed up with the Boys and Girls club on base. His team’s name is the Nuggets and he is really learning a lot.

Zac also wanted to try out Civil Air Patrol. I found a squad for him so he could see if it is something he likes. Well after 2 meetings, he decided he was not ready for the strict regimen the military life requires. At least he knows what they offer and I don’t have to worry about any flights as of yet.

Wednesdays we meet other military homeschoolers at the library for educational classes.

Thursdays we have Girl Scouts. Both girls are meeting together. It is a small troop but we are still looking for a more active troop to join.

Fridays we have a homeschool PE class. Each week we try out different sports at the B&G club. There is even a rock climbing wall so the possibilities are endless.

I have been having issues with my neck and back for years and finally was referred to have an MRI to find the source of pain. Let me tell you how fun it is to lie flat on your back, perfectly still while a loud machine swallows you and spits you out about 5 times through the course of ½ an hour. I am not signing up for that fun ride again anytime soon! They were able to determine that I am getting old and falling apart. Brad has been telling me that for years. So for a few months I have been doing physical therapy 2x a week. I swear they are going to start charging me rent there. Next week I start pool therapy. Just as soon as I can find a wet suit to enter the pool, I’m in.

I will be teaching scrapbooking on base and in Wasilla this month. I’m hoping to make enough money to pay for my habit (at least that’s what I lead Brad to believe). I am excited to meet some new people and to get back to something I truly enjoy.

We are just getting ready for the winter. Here, the trees are dropping leaves faster each day. You can sit and watch the leaves spiral down to the ground one after another like snow flakes in a calm winter storm. The roads look as though sheets of gold have fallen from the sky and layered the tops of anything in its way. As we drive along the highway, we follow the mountain ridge in which we see the merge of colors sprawl up the mountain side.

This weekend we went for a drive and the mixture of colors reminded us of ‘70s vinyl that would decorate the newer homes in those days. Splotchy patches of burnt mustard, sherbet orange and florescent yellow weaved between the black spruce. Some trees are slower in the turning process so we still have a few vibrant green trees trying to out last the avocado green shades. The undergrowth is a deep pomegranate red that pops out at you as you scan the road side driving by.

Our temps are dropping into the 30s at night and reaching the 50s during the day. Each morning when we rise, the snow is stretching farther and farther down the mountains. Now the nights are dark. By 8:30pm we are shadow less as the black fills in all areas. The mornings are slow to raise the sun so by 8am it seems overcast but light.

The moose have returned to daily visit and have gained much weight over the summer months. The calves that were so small when we arrived now seem the size of a large shadow against their mother. The bulls antlers are growing in a rich espresso velvet and are more visible each day.
If you visit AK in the summer it is safe to assume that everyone is gone. With 22 hours of sunlight and plenty of fishing, hiking and camping to be done after a long dark winter people make up for that lost time.

I am debating what to do if/when Brad deploys. Should I stay here in the dead of winter by myself? Go back to CO to stay with a friend and work at Archivers again until he returns? Go to AZ to be close to my parents? I guess it depends on how long he is going to be gone and where he goes. There is talk of other bases to deploy to, so we will see. He started the NCO academy September 26th.

We are still looking to buy a home but as winter sets in we started looking to staying in the RV and have also begun looking to rent a furnished apt through the winter. Who knows, we will just take it day by day.

Our Trip Outside

So we are home, YEAH!!!

Just a visual of our driving trip. Start with A, where we flew in from Anchorage. We flew home from J. Don't forget the flying miles.

Outside Alaska- CA

We rent another car to head towards Cali. This time we upgraded to a Chevy Malibu. Still a small car compared to what we are use to, but a HUGE improvement from the teeny, tiny Aveo we spent so much time in. Even the kids were remarking over the space. We didn’t get the same cheap rate as the Aveo though. Cars are cheap in the Midwest. This is not the case on the west coast. Especially when picking up at one location and dropping in another. At $83/day our 4 days with the Malibu cost about the same as our little Aveo did for two weeks…yeah it hurt!

We hit the road and made it into CA by about 3pm (about 500 miles). On the way we hit 117 degrees. Seriously, why did we decide to travel through AZ and CA in Aug??

We got to LA and stayed at March ANG base. This base is closing so it has the abandoned feel to it. The billeting is very Spanish inspired with terra cotta roof tiles and heavily textured white stucco walls. Large palm trees were in the center of the courtyard with a trickling water fountain. Absolutely GEORGOUS!!

About 2 years ago I helped my mom find some relatives she had never met and some she had lost contact with. While looking for her family I also decided to try looking up a long lost best friend from my childhood. Hours and hours of frustration and several dead ends later I was finally able to contact her. We had spoken over the phone and emailed, but had not yet made contact in person until today. Even though I had not seen her in 17 years I so could have picked her out of a line up. She was always beautiful and now, as a woman, has only perfected her look. She has the squeakiest of voices so Mickey Mouse was a nick name through school. Wanna talk about flash backs. We had a great time. She lived just 2 houses down and we were attached to the hip for many a year. She has 2 daughters that are the same ages as mine so they got along great. And meeting at a Dave and Buster’s was a great decision according to Zac. How quickly time passes. We are hoping next time to plan a vaca together.

A friend, Tina (Jason’s wife), who grew up in LA told me to watch out for the traffic in LA. I was confident in all my travels and growing up in a large city I could totally handle a few cars driving beside me. She informed me of the 70 mph posted limit and the ACTUAL driving speed and how I would be sitting still. Speeding ticket, hello! Ok Tina, you were right!! I am cruzin at 80ish :) and cars are flying past me and pissed that I am in the way. Oh and locking up the brakes during morning rush hour in the fast lane, 6 lanes in is probably not the best choice. Oh and FYI a Chevy Malibu will shut off IMMEDIATELY when the brakes lock up. Laughing now with slight residual twitch.

The next day we headed out up highway 1. We spent some time on the beach and the weather was awesome. It was sunny and high 70s the short time we were there. When we pulled out of the parking lot of the beach I got pulled over again! The police came to the window and asked if I knew why I had been pulled over. I was speeding. NO! Well I might have been, but that wasn’t the reason I was getting pulled over. I guess I had run through a stop sign in the park. Lucky for me I got a warning. He was a little confused though. I have an AZ driver’s license with a CO address but we reside in AK. Another interesting fact about AZ driver’s license is the expiration date. Mine is not set to expire until 2041, seriously! Now the kids think they have some dirt on me. “Look out mom, there’s a stop sign,” or “Are you supposed to be going that fast?” HAHA funny stuff!

We got to Travis and stayed in the TLF there, another 400 miles. WHOA!!! I felt like I was in the Ritz or something. Our room had 2 bedrooms and a full kitchen for $43 a night. What a deal. The next day we drove through Napa Valley and the surrounding area. It was absolutely beautiful. Zac wants to move to CA when he is an adult. He loved southern CA and he saw upper on our trip to AK. We turned in the rental car after 1400 miles in 4 days and spent the next day at the Travis terminal awaiting a flight home. The USO has a family lounge that kept the kids and I busy to kill time. We were able to catch another C-5 for the return trip. With 3 ½ weeks and over 6000 miles under my belt I needed a rest. It sure was great to see lots of friends and family. We missed a few but will definitely try to catch them next time. Never know when we will make a trip.

The flight home was uneventful. The landing was a little rough but we landed in one piece. We bounced a few times and the face masks were falling out due to the molding coming off the plane.

All in all we had a great trip. I HATE flying!!!

Outside Alaska- AZ

Now it is a straight shot to AZ. Just as we are approaching the AZ boarder my cell phone rings. It is my mom calling from her neighbor’s cell phone. She locked herself out of the house when she took out garbage…in her jammies. My dad is the only person with her spare key (my divorced parents are best friends, adds to the craziness huh?) so here she is on her back porch, without her cigarettes and her soda, in the middle of August in AZ, and we would not be there for about 2 ½ hours.

I think I jinxed myself as I made a stupid comment a while back about how I WAS NOT going to AZ anymore! Since Brad and I moved away in ’99 we have been back to AZ NO less than 3 times a year. One year we went 6 times! I am an AZ native, born and raised. I am done, no more, seen enough for now. Since my stupid comment I have been back 3 times in less than a year. I even said once we moved to AK I was not going to visit anyone for a long time. I made it 4 months before heading down to see our family. Something is really wrong with me!

In AZ we have my dad’s station wagon to crusin around in. Talk about a pimpin ride. It used to be my grandparents and my dad bought it off of them.

Zac and Kenzie spent most of the 4 days in AZ visiting their daddy Jason. Luckily we get along great. Yes, just like my parents all 4 of the kid’s parents hang out. Normally Jason and his wife, Tina, will join Brad and I and my 3 parents for dinner. So it is our 5 kids (my 2 with Jason, Brad’s 2 with Julie and Brad and I’s daughter) and my dad, mom and step-mom, Jason and Tina asking for table reservations. I also get along with Jason’s family and visit with them. Crazy as it seems it works out great. The kids think it is great. When Jason comes to visit them, he stays in our house and he and Brad get along. Jason’s wife and I get along. I just wish it could be like that with Brad’s ex.

Before we left, the kids took some photos with their Grandpa Chuck (Jason's dad above), Jason's mom and Jason's Grandfather.

While in Tucson we did just over 300 miles in the 4 days. Of course we hit our favorite spots. We were even able to see my sister’s land where they are planning to build a home. On the 3 acres they will also build a stable and coral to board their own horses and maybe even take in some to make some money. This has been a lifelong goal for their family.

I was ready to be home. I am a spoiled Air Force wife. Brad has never deployed and in almost 9 years we have never been more than 3 weeks apart. We talk on the phone several times a day, but not having the face to face conversation really wears on me. We also spent the past 3 weeks on a couch, living out of suitcases, which is more than enough for me. I know everyone thinks we are crazy for living in an RV, but as much traveling as we do it sure is nice to have your own bed and ability to cook your own meals where ever you are. Don’t even get me started on having your own restroom. People are nasty at rest stops!

I was hoping a flight would be leaving AZ to AK but no such luck. We are now headed to CA to try and catch a flight from there. No guarantees we will be able to do so, but that’s our best chance to get home. Who knows how long our stay in CA will be. This is a great advantage to homeschooling. We don’t have to worry about making it back for “school”. This is "school"!

Outside Alaska- MO/OK/TX/NM

We follow my dad to Rolla, MO and stopped for the night after 600 miles. This is the small town Brad’s grandmother lives in. The area is beautiful. Got a kewl pic following behind just past St. Louis, MO.

The next day I made good on my promise and ate at the Bob Evans before dropping off the car. I turned in the rental car after 3600 miles in 2 weeks and full of white sand from Lake MI. We now cram into my dad’s car. My dad is driving, Kenzie is in the middle, and my step-mom is in the passenger seat. The second row consists of Zac, Mikaela and me. It is a station wagon with two useable seats. The third seat and back are filled with luggage and pillows.

Remember this is the end of August. There has been an unusual heat wave plaguing the Midwest and 6 people smashed in a car for about 1300 miles. The A/C would freeze up so the vent would circulate the hot, humid air. It felt as if we were being slow cooked. The windows would get crack so the sound of 70 mph wind would deafen us. In my childhood music would be on in the car, in the house, everyday. I don’t remember my dad ever watching TV, ever! Well something happened as he has aged. The entire trip to AZ is without the radio… and this vehicle actually has one! For those who do not know my dad (great guy) this ’88 Olds station wagon is his newest vehicle he owns. His daily driver is a ’67 Ford p/u. Or a ’64 Pontiac Catalina, or ’64 Pontiac Bonneville…all without FM radio.

We make it through OK and are on the outskirts of TX and it is late. We are in search of dry ice for the 20lbs of MI blueberries my dad is bringing home with him. Every year he brings them to AZ. They are the biggest, juiciest, sweetest blueberries known to man. As the minutes pass the dry ice is evaporating so the hunt is on. A small town in TX at 10pm = no dry ice. We drive on and still no ice. We make it into Tucumcari, NM and finally stop for the night after almost 900 miles. We have the blueberries in front of the A/C unit for the night. Blueberries just hold on please don’t let go. We made a stop in the morning at a local store to get dry ice. Score! They will make it to AZ without completely thawing. I thought there for a while we were gonna have to eat 20lbs of blueberries in NM.